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And "contempt" is such an ugly and harsh concept. It infers that people begin taking each other for granted. It suggests irritation, and people becoming impatient with one another. It breeds negativity … people getting together and complaining about various things. It manifests in harsh words, people saying mean things that can hurt one another.
Someone once said: "The people we love the most are those that we treat the worst." Consider what happens to kindness when familiarity breeds contempt.
The contempt of familiarity is what Jesus experienced when he entered his hometown. This text in its context hides a brilliant insight about how familiarity can check faith. Faith not in the sense of creeds and ideas that we believe. Last week, we looked at two stories in Mark, one nested within the other. In the internal story, a woman touches Jesus and is healed. Jesus says to her, "Your faith made you well."
In the external story, Jarius asks Jesus to heal his daughter. When news comes that Jesus is too late, everyone doubts. Metaphorically, these stories, one nested in the other, contrasts two approaches to faith … one, a stubborn faith … the other, resigned doubt. Believing the worst.
This week, we hear how Jesus entered his hometown. This story, in the context of the other two, continues the theme. Doubt, suspicion, criticism, negativity, makes healing and wholeness impossible.
Jesus enters the synagogue, walks up to the pulpit, and begins teaching.
§ "Who is this, who proposes to teach us?"§ "Is not this our hometown boy?"§ Didn’t we teach him in our Sunday School classes?§ Were we not his playground supervisor?Home town folks can be proud of their children who go to far off places and make good. They get their names in the newspapers. But not for a hometown boy to come home to preach!
The text says an interesting thing. Ponder. Now this is a different picture of Jesus’ healing than the one with which I grew up. Most people grew up with a "magic wand" kind of Jesus. He walked around and touched people, or said a few words over them, and "ZAP," the blind open their eyes and see. The lame get up and walk.
This is how faith healers are portrayed by television evangelists. Mark seems to suggest that Jesus’ ability to heal fundamentally depends on the faith people bring to the experience.
Doubt checks faith. Passionate Belief is as necessary to healing and wholeness as the positive images we hold in consciousness. Matthew’s gospel has Jesus saying: Mark says in his gospel, ask anything that you want in prayer, And if you believe that it will be so, it will be so, … Now I do not think that this passage is talking about telekinesis.
Go to the gas station and fill up your car.
Like the citizens of Nazareth, what can nullify our capacity of faith is too much familiarity. This last week, Connie and I had company from out of town … a mother and her daughter. They are from Missouri, and outside of a brief visit, have never been to California. Connie and I decided to take them to some of our old familiar places. Usually, when we have guests, we like to take them to new places, but these two wanted to see some of the more familiar San Francisco sites. The "Bush Man" scaring people as they walked by. It was all too familiar to me … and my cynicism began to set in. We were at the pier rather late, and we saw the silver man get down off his podium, and drive off in his BMW. My cynicism was growing … being familiar with the place, I noticed how so many vendors seem to be taking advantage of the tourists.
Our guests had a different perception. For them, everything was Wow! Ooh! Ahh! We were sitting in the Bubba Gump Restaurant, by the window. They were looking out, pointing to and admiring every little thing that passed by. A seagull perched close by. I started to cup my hand beside my mouth and whisper, "Those are pelicans."
Looking at these pelicans, A.K.A., seagulls, it was like the universe was trying to teach me something.
What heals may not be something new coming into our lives. What heals may be something that is already around us. Like living in little bubbles, wobbling their way to the surface. Then popping and disappearing. Sometimes people live in a tiny bubble of awareness, never fully noticing anyone or anything else. Or like a vine growing on a trestle, weaving in and out of other vines. Like the proverbial "seamless garment." Each touching and supporting the others, and never growing tired of familiarity.
Who is that familiar face, coming up the road, walking into our town? |